See Jane Dance! Is Coming Along

See Jane Dance! Is Coming Along

Book 3 in West River Mystery Series is in the works. Learn how See Jane Dancer! is coming along and why Jane is taking square dance lessons.

See Jane Dance! is coming along. As in, I hope to finish the first draft in the next month to six weeks. So while you’re engrossed in See Jane Run! or eagerly waiting for See Jane Sing!’s release this fall, my head is all See Jane Dance! all the time. Since first drafts are hell, this is not my head’s favorite place to be. I’m escaping confinement briefly to let you in on a few details.

  • See Jane Dance! is the third book in the West River Mystery Series.
  • The publisher, Midwestern Books, originally hoped to release it in January of 2023. Because we now realize that was a bite too big for the writer and the publisher to chew, the release date has been pushed back to late fall of 2023 or early winter of 2024.
  • The cover is amazing and will be disclosed sometime in 2023. There is a fiddle on the book’s cover, hence the picture of the fiddler for now.
  • The reason for the fiddler is that square dance lessons are a main driver of the plot in Book #3.
  • Part of the research for See Jane Dance! involved a long weekend at a square dance center and campground near Lolo Springs, Montana.* I interviewed the owner and the square dance caller about the progression of steps taught during beginner lessons. The interview was necessary because we remember very little about the 8 weeks of square dance lessons Hiram and I took 40 years ago when we lived in South Dakota.
  • The one thing Hiram and I do remember is the song the teacher used each time we practiced a new step––There’s Something About You Baby I Like.** The song does appear in See Jane Dance!
  • Readers will find nods to the old Vander Meer Bakery in Le Mars, Iowa, South Dakota’s frigid winters, and school Valentine’s Day parties.***
  • Squeamish readers should be aware that this book includes more blood than previous books, including one human death, several dead cattle, and a taxidermy shop.
  • As of this posting 36 of 50 chapters in the first draft are written.****

Enough avoiding returning to the rough draft. It’s back to See Jane Dance! for me.

*The campground is closed this summer due to a death in the family, and their website is no longer there.
**Those who click on the You Tube video can thank me later for the ear worm.
***For which elementary school teachers deserve sainthood.
****Not that I’m counting or anything, but this means that 14 chapters of hell remain.

Sweet Joy in the Middle of Goodness

Sweet Joy in the Middle of Goodness

Sweet Joy in the Middle of Goodness

Sweet joy in the middle of goodness was an unexpectedly delightful part of our trip to an Arizona fruit orchard in January. I walked around in shirtsleeves and sandals, admiring trees laden with yellow and orange fruit. I breathed in the tang of fresh citrus. I sampled variety after variety of grapefruit, oranges, lemons, and limes with greedy joy.

The orchard was heady fare for a midwesterner eager to escape an Iowa winter for a week. When it was time to leave the orchard, I didn’t want to go. And I didn’t want to leave Arizona’s warmth and sunshine when our vacation ended.

Even so, part of me was ready to return home and resume interviews with parents raising kids with special needs and disabilities for a book proposal about stress and compassion fatigue in caregiver.

I was ready to return to the sweet joy of hearing their stories.
The sweet joy of witnessing their pride in their children.
The sweet joy of crying with them in their grief.
The sweet joy of learning from their wisdom.
The sweet joy of being in the middle of goodness incomprehensible to those not part of our world.

Talking to these families, on the phone or in video chats, has been as sharp and delicious as an orange eaten in a citrus grove. Our conversations take me back to my days as a caregiver, and we connect as only parents of kids with disabilities and special needs can. As they describe their lives, common threads, common needs, and common desires emerge. Here are 5 many parents have expressed.

To read the rest of this post visit Key Ministry’s blog for parents raising kids with special needs.

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When We Seek the Mind of Christ

When We Seek the Mind of Christ

When We Seek the Mind of Christ

Our thermometer read nine below zero this morning. The double doors that open onto our south-facing deck are frozen shut. A crust of frost along the bottom of the inside of each door led to a rolled blanket on the floor in front of them. I spent most of the day at my computer in front of a south-facing window where cold sunlight streamed in. I was tempted to bemoan the weather–I mean, really what could be worse than a barely respectable skiff of snow coupled with below zero temperatures.

But the picture a tiny baby in the manger, whose birth we celebrated only a few days ago, reminded me of a scandalous truth that stopped my grumbling before it could gain steam, and one holy thought derailed my discontent. On the worst weather day of the year, my circumstances are far more comfortable than those that greeted God who came to earth in the form of a baby.

Even after factoring in the warmer climate of Jesus’ birthplace and the likelihood that He was born in spring, the stable where He was born remains a less hospitable place than my cozy home in winter. Face to face with the sacrifice of Christ that began with His meager birth and ended with His death on the cross, my dissatisfaction transformed into gratitude and wonder, honor and praise. I found myself humming the melody of And Can It Be? and searching for the lyrics online. Once found, the words of the third verse mirrored my thoughts precisely.

He left His Father’s throne above,
So free, so infinite His grace;
Emptied Himself of all but love,
And bled for Adam’s helpless race;
‘Tis mercy all, immense and free;
For, O my God, it found out me.
Amazing love! how can it be
That Thou, my God, should die for me!

I can take no credit for the reversal in my train of thought. The turn from ingratitude to joy is not natural for me or for you. We can’t negotiate a mindset change by ourselves. It is only accomplished when we recognize and confess our weakness, when we ask the Holy Spirit to give us the mind of Christ as we seek to honor Him in the most mundane or uncomfortable situations.

This is a worthy endeavor for a new year, one we can pursue in complete confidence because it is in God’s will. Certainly we will fail at times, and certainly our best efforts will be imperfect. But just as certainly, God will be pleased by our desire to honor Him. And next year in the dead of winter, we will look back and rejoice to see how deeply His Spirit has changed our hearts in 365 days.

“But a natural man does not accept the things of the Spirit of God…
But we have the mind of Christ.
1 Corinthians 2: 14, 16

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The Goodness of Light for this Fantastic Friday

The Goodness of Light for this Fantastic Friday

For this Fantastic Friday, a much needed reminder that light is stronger than darkness even in the dead of winter.This week’s Fantastic Friday post comes in the form of a poem written in January of 2012 when the weather was cold, the morning dark, the moon brilliant and full. The perfect antidote to the winter blues both then and now.

Light Stronger Than Darkness

In winter, the extra hours of darkness
Weigh upon my shoulders,
Press upon my eyelids,
Make me groggy and slow and stupid.

Still last week, when the moon was full,
And the air was winter-warm,
I took my camera into the darkness
As the sun waited patiently to start her day
Until after the moon went to bed.

The darkness was too thick
And my hands too shaky
To capture the glory of the moon,
And finally I quit trying,
Trudging home with shoulders bent,
Eyelids drooping in a darkness
That lingered until yesterday
When I finally looked at the pictures.

Disappointments, all of them but one,
Where the bright moon waited
In the blue-black sky.
Not behind bare black branches
As it was in reality,
But in front of them,
Eclipsing them,
Engulfing them in silver light.

Looking at the picture,
My shoulders straightened,
My eyes opened wide,
When I saw the truth.
Light is stronger than darkness,
Waiting patiently to be found by those who seek it.

Top Ten Differences Between Phoenix and Iowa

Top Ten Differences Between Phoenix and Iowa

What's the difference between Iowa and Arizona? This list's top ten is a good place to start.The Man of Steel and I are home after a week in Phoenix visiting relatives. During this, our first winter vacation to warmer climes, we noticed these ten differences between Arizona and Iowa.

10. In Iowa, you’ll see trees similar to this one being propped up,

treebut you’ll only find these in Arizona.

cactus9.  Iowa hiking paths are strewn with wood chips or gravel. Arizona hiking paths are strewn with boulders poking every which way and then topped with large rocks so the boulders become even more hazardous.

8.  The walkways to airplanes in Iowa sport large thermometers right outside the airplane so passengers know the walkway is a balmy 20 degrees and not below zero like the great outdoors. Passengers in Arizona walkways don’t want to know that walkways in Iowa are a balmy 20 degrees.

7.  In Arizona, people sport flannel scarves for walks in 68 degree weather. In Iowa, people sport flip flops when the temperature is above freezing.

6.  Iowans shiver while drinking morning coffee outside Starbucks. Arizonans shiver inside while sipping their AM java.

5.  Arizonans carry yoga mats over their shoulders on morning walks. Iowans carry snow shovels.

4.  Arizona grocery stores carry delicious avocados and terrible beef. Iowa grocery stores offer the exact opposite.

3.  Arizonans put their dogs in purple and pink strollers for outdoor walks in the winter. Iowans put their dogs in black and gold, red and gold, or purple and gold sweaters.

2.  Arizona has more urgent care pet clinics, pet spas, and upscale pet stores than pediatrician offices. Iowa has more urgent care clinics for little people than pet stores.

1. In Arizona dogs wear sunglasses. In Iowa, eye wear is limited to adults.

What makes your Arizona/Iowa top ten list? Leave a comment.