Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 2

Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 2

Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 2

Jesus loved kids so much, he commanded the disciples to bring the little children to him. That commandment referred to all children, including those with special needs. One of the duties of believing parents is to introduce our children to him. Guest blogger Amy Stout is here with Part 2 of a two-day series packed with resources to equip parents to follow that command.

Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 2

As parents, we have an awesome and wonderful opportunity to introduce our children to Jesus. However, when you are a parent of a child who experiences special needs or who learns differently, this task can seem overwhelmingly difficult. Here are a few resources that have really been helpful in our home:

Bible Study/Devotions

  • Jesus resources for kids with special needsWord of Life Gopher Buddies Quiet Time: This is a quick daily devotional for you to do with your child. Each lesson is short and sweet and gives them a hands on activity that requires zero prep. Kylie loves it. Also, the lessons are easily adaptable based on your child’s abilities.

 

 

 

 

  • Keys for Kids:Ā This is also a favorite of ours. These are not as colorful, but the stories are captivating and so applicable to every day life. Plus, you can get theĀ first book freeĀ or read online for free. The website also shows theĀ ABC’s of salvation.

 

 

Biblical Training/Discipline/Parental Guidance

  • For Instruction in Righteousness:Ā My absolute favorite resource. Behaviors are listed topically. (Example: anger, pride, friendship, and so on.) Each section is divided into: what the Bible says about this, what are the consequences if you don’t do as the Bible says, what are the blessings if you do what the Bible says, examples of Bible characters who did and did not obey and what happened to them, practical ideas of object lessons and other helps for parents. Ā Much scripture is listed and reinforces that our children are to obey God’s word through parental instruction.

This really helps our family reinforce that Kylie is not just disobeying/obeying us as her parents, but more importantly she is disobeying/obeying God. Ā It also gives us ideas of the good things she is doing so we can reward and encourage her appropriately as we see these positive behaviors. I love that discipline is not just negative… but what it is supposed to be–teaching and training.

  • The Child Training Bible:Ā This website gives you a full tutorial, shopping list and tips on how to use the Child Training Bible. While it is time consuming to put together, it is a great resource. You simply follow the tabs for scriptural helps to teach your child about that issue or concern in the Bible. They also offer aĀ Virtue Training Bible.

 

  • Introducing your child to Jesus ResourcesThe Five Love Languages of Children: This is an amazing book for parents. I can’t say enough about it. Knowing how to discern Love Languages is so important to every aspect of your life—parenting, work relationships, church relationships, and so much more. It helps with every communication style. One of my favorite parenting books.

 

 

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Faith-Based Toys

The Fisher Price Noah’s Ark set is one example. But there are so many to choose from… See thisĀ linkĀ for a big list.

What Jesus Resources Do You Use?

Now that Amy’s shared her list of resources, it’s your turn. What resources do you use with your kids? Leave a comment below for the rest of us. If you missed yesterday’s post be sure to check it out too.

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Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 1

Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 1

Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 1

Jesus commanded the disciples to bring the little children to him. As his present-day disciples, one of our duties is to introduce our children with special needs to him. Guest blogger Amy Stout is here with Part 1 of a two-day series packed with resources and ideas to obey Jesus’ command and bless our children.

Introducing Jesus to Kids with Special Needs, Part 1

My daughter recently informed my husband and me that God was “cross” with Wreck-It-Ralph. (Who says the word “cross” anymore?) She told us that Ralph was wrecking God’s creation and God was going to send an angel to help him STOP!

My husband and I got a good laugh out of her story. Ā We hooted even more a few days later when we were in a store with Kylie, and a woman’s voice came over the loud speaker. Our daughter jerked her head up, sucked in her breath and exclaimed “That’s God’s sister!”

While Kylie’s theology is obviously flawed, and we have lots of work to do to make sure she understands truth, we were thrilled that she is beginning to connect the spiritual dots, however squiggly the lines are right now.

As parents, we have an awesome and wonderful opportunity to introduce our children to Jesus. However, when you are a parent of a child who experiences special needs or who learns differently, this task can seem overwhelmingly difficult. A good place to start would be to figure out what your child’s learning style is. Is your child an auditory learner? A visual learner? A hands-on learner? Does she enjoy self-teaching or learn better in a group or one-on-one? Does music help your child learn? Once you know that piece, it is much easier to choose resources to help your child become acquainted with spiritual truths.

Here are a few resources that have really been helpful in our home:

Bible Memory Resources

  • Scripture Lullabies CD: I discovered these recently and am so thrilled by them. They are an incredible way to learn scripture simply by listening to them as your child goes to sleep. The music is so beautiful and the lyrics come directly from God’s Word. On a side note: many parents have reported that after listening to these CDs, their kids sleep better, night terrors cease to exist and they rest beautifully… because folks, scripture does that. The Word of God is alive and powerful! They are available in Volume 1 and Volume 2.

 

  • Hide 'em in your HeartHide ’em In Your Heart DVD/CD: This is an amazing DVD/CD set. The fashions are a little dated, but the kids playing and colorful scenes are engaging for kids and adults alike. The tempo is upbeat and fun. We really enjoy these for daytime viewing. The link takes you to a boxed set of both volumes.

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Bible Stories to Read

  • Read and Share Bible: This is my daughter’s absolute favorite book. (We also love theĀ DVDs.) Ā She takes it with her everywhere. She has read these stories to Buddhists, Hindus, Free Thinkers, and Muslims. (Who said a 7-year-old can’t be a missionary?) The illustrations are colorful and exciting. Ā My only teeny, tiny “negative” feedback is that my daughter often gets confused by the babies in the book. The babies in different stories are illustrated the same so, because my daughter is a literal thinker, it took us a long time to convince her that the babies had not jumped into other stories of the book but that they each had their own name and own parents. For example, Kylie kept telling us that the baby Samuel was Ruth and Boaz’s son… nope… the babies just look the same in the book. Samuel’s mommy is Hannah, and Ruth and Boaz’s son is Obed. However, this is a miniscule complaint vs how much we love this book and DVD set!

 

  • The Jesus Story Book Bible: This is my absolute favorite book to read to my daughter. Ā The illustrations are not that engaging for children, in my opinion, so I choose to read this to Kylie at bedtime after she is already tucked into bed. The writing is amazing and I love that every story circles back to Jesus and the big picture. You aren’t left wondering how it all fits together in the end.

 

More Jesus Resources on Tap Tomorrow

Amy will be back tomorrow with more resources in part 2 of this series. Until then, have fun checking these out and leaving comments about your child’s favorite faith resources.

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4 Bible Time Tips for Families of Kids with Special Needs

4 Bible Time Tips for Families of Kids with Special Needs

4 Bible Time Tips for Families of Kids with Special Needs

Bible time to encourage the spiritual development of the children is one of the duties of believing parents. It requires time, patience, and diligence. For parents of kids with special needs, it also requires extra perseverance and plenty of creativity. A blog post at Do Not Depart by Caroline Flory offers tips for parents who want to include their children in daily Bible time.

The Importance of Bible Time for Kids with Special Needs

Flory first explains why Bible time is important for kids with special needs. Here’s what she says:

  • Anything positive where we include children with special needs helps boost confidence in their own social and communication skills and worth.
  • The more they (or any of us, really) hear God’s Word, the deeper those truths permeate.
  • Inclusion in family activities with people of varied ages exposes kids to new concepts and social strategies.

Bible Time Tips for Including Kids with Special Needs

She then offers these four tips:

  1. Give your children opportunities to participate. Flory’s son uses sign language to stay engaged in the conversation.
  2. Help them memorize Scripture. Even if it takes longer for your child with special needs, memorization can lead to eternal benefit.
  3. Surround your kids with Scripture expressed in various mediums. Music is especially effective. It helps truths stick in the heart, help kids express feelings, and increases positive attitudes.
  4. Allow some choice. Allowing kids some choice helps them maintain focus.

Flory explains each point in greater detail in 4 Tips for Including Kids with Special Needs in Family Bible Time. The post is packed with links and resources related to Bible time and kids with special needs.

How Do You Involve Kids with Special Needs in Bible Time?

How about you? What do you do to keep all your kids engaged in family Bible time? Your ideas are welcome here, so leave a comment.

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4 Ways to Share the Gospel with Kids Who Have Special Needs

4 Ways to Share the Gospel with Kids Who Have Special Needs

4 Ways to Share the Gospel with Kids Who Have Special Needs

 

The gospel is meant to be shared by parents with their children, even their children with special needs. Today, guest blogger Becky Hallberg—mom of kids with special needs and trained in special education—offers tips about how to share the gospel with kids who have special needs.

Everyone Can Learn

I have felt challenged lately to share the gospel with kids who have special needs. Opportunities have been coming across my path like never before. It’s such a blessing, but at the same time, such a sacred privilege. But even more than the challenge to share Christ’s love with others has been the burden to share that with our kids—not just the three kids belonging to my husband and me, but our kids—your family’s children, my family’s children—our families who deal with special needs.

I am a teacher by profession, and took courses to be certified in Special Education as well as Elementary Education. There are many who would discount a child’s ability to learn based on their special needs. And I will be the first to tell you that, yes, it can be challenging to explain simple concepts to someone who struggles to learn. But that’s just it—it’s challenging, not impossible. I am a firm believer that any child, regardless of special needs that are present, has the ability to have knowledge of Jesus. Why? Because God made us to know and love Him—all of us, regardless of anything that seems to hinder us.Ā  With the schooling of our children and all that goes along with that, the therapies, the medical issues, and the many other issues we face with our kids, how can we easily sow God’s Word into their lives? How can we make sure we are intentional about sharing God’s love with our children?

4 Ways to Intentionally Share the Gospel with Kids Who Has Special Needs

  1. Music: So many kids learn well by music. The repetition of the tune and the words helps it to sink in. There are great CDs that teach kids. There are ones that are as simple as Sunday school songs (Jesus Loves Me, The B-I-B-L-E), and other CDs that are contemporary worship that kids love as well. Find what works for your family, but play music for them if they like music!
  2. Bible Verses: Teach your child a Bible verse, and no, I don’t mean something complex. Shorten it, paraphrase it, write it on a note card, make it easy for them to see, and repeat it for them (and with them!) often. {Side note:Ā  I know that many families have children who are non-verbal. These suggestions are not meant to discourage you. I’m not suggesting we have our kids memorizing and reciting Scripture if they are not able to do so. What I’m suggesting below are ways that we, as parents and friends, can fill their hearts with Scripture and the knowledge of God’s love!}
  3. Pictures: So many kids learn well if they have an image to go along with what they are learning. Pictures can be worked into many parts of how we teach our children. My kids love the preschool and early elementary Bibles that are full of pictures to go along with each story. Maybe that kind of book would work well in your home. Or maybe you’re good at designing images. Even a simple picture of a heart with the word Jesus on it would help our kids to visually remember that Jesus loves them! This can be as easy and simple as you need it to be, or as intricate and detailed as you would like it to be! I’m not great at art, so I’m always thankful for resources with great pictures, or the opportunity to draw my own simple image.
  4. Time: Spending time with our kids can be the easiest way to plant God’s Word in their hearts. Often, when we’re driving to therapy, I will use that opportunity to play some worship music, or to work on a Bible verse with my son. It’s simply a matter of taking the opportunities that we naturally have, and making the most of them. My husband reads with the kids before bed each night. Some of the stories are more adventure-like, some are more biblical-based. It’s just one of those times when we’re already focused on the kids, and we’re doing just a little more to show the importance of God’s love.

How Are You Being Intentional?

How are you being intentional, and practically sowing God’s Word into your child’s life? The suggestions I’ve made are just a few of the many ways we can do this. And, really, if you’re sharing God’s Word and God’s love with someone, especially your child, there are so many right ways to do that. Let’s make sure we’re being intentional with our children and God’s love!

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Let Us Rejoice in our Children with Special Needs

Let Us Rejoice in our Children with Special Needs

Let Us Rejoice in our Children with Special Needs

Rejoicing in our children with special needs is often mingled with grief when the milestones they meet are quite different from their peers. My friend, Karen Jackson, is here to describe how she responded in one such occasion. Karen is the Director of Faith Inclusion Network (FIN) of Hampton Roads, a non-profit organization devoted to the better inclusion of people with disabilities into faith communities. She’s also mom to three kids, one of whom experiences autism.

Let Us Rejoice!

Today at Mass, fifteen beautiful young children received the Sacrament of First Holy Communion.Ā  They were impeccably dressed in miniature suits for the boys and delicate while dresses for the girls.Ā  Many of the girls even wore flowers in their hair, as is traditional, and a professional photographer was on hand to take individual photos of each young person with our Pastor.Ā  This was a special moment in their lives as Catholics, to be sure, and a celebration for our whole congregation.

Rejoicing in Milestones

While these families celebrated this special time for their second graders, I silently and joyfully celebrated a special moment in time with my only daughter Samantha.Ā  Because today, after more than six years of preparation, advocacy in our church, and a succession of ā€œalmostā€ and ā€œnot-even-closeā€ experiences in worship, my precious 15-year-old daughter with autism sat in the sanctuary with me for the entire Mass, beginning to end.

Rejoicing in Milestones on the Spectrum

For those who have children on the spectrum, I probably do not need to say much more than that.Ā  For those who do not live with or work with children with autism, let me try to explain.

For lack of better terms, Samantha falls under the moderate to severe part of the Autism Spectrum Disorder.Ā  She does not have exceptionally aggressive behavior, for instance, but she is severely limited in her ability to communicate.Ā  Sitting still has also been a challenge and, although she loves to sing snippets of her favorite songs or just vocalize in a sing-song way, she exhibits very little control of her impromptu vocalizations.Ā  Therefore, it is very possible she might belt out ā€œI love, you, you love me, we’re a happy familyā€ (Barney theme song) in the middle of a very quiet moment at church.Ā  (And she has actually done exactly that before).

So today, I quietly celebrated a small—well, no—actually a big victory.Ā  Instead of sitting in what is essentially considered the traditional ā€œcry roomā€ area where parents bring babies and toddlers, I boldly led Samantha into the sanctuary.Ā  Of course, this was not the first time we had tried.Ā  On a good day, we might make it through to the homily (about 20 minutes into Mass) and then sneak out, just in time, as she started to get restless and be a little too loud.

But today she remained calm and we settled into our pews, her older brother at one side of me, Samantha tucked in close to me on the other side.

Rejoicing in Corporate Worship

I had completely forgotten how amazing it is to be in corporate worship at our church.Ā  Music from our organ, choir, and hundreds of fellow parishioners surrounded us, engulfing us with the soothing and exiting sounds of traditional hymns.Ā  In the cry room area, the music is heard mainly through the speaker—beautiful, yes, but not the same experience.
And the prayers! Again, I was overcome by the strength of hundreds of voices speaking in unison, declaring our beliefs as Catholic Christians, reciting prayers, raising our voices as one.

It only took a short glance over at Samantha to recognize that she was affected by the experience as well. She smiled, rocked to the music, strained to see what was happening at the altar, and exhibited a heightened awareness of her surroundings.

After the homily, I began to get nervous, as Samantha was getting fidgety and kind of silly.Ā  She was trying to engage me in a game by repeating my ā€œshh…quietā€ with a no-so-quiet ā€œqui—etā€ repeated back to me.Ā  But as I struggled to calm her down and resist the temptation to pull her out, I caught the eye of a fellow parishioner who was smiling at the scene.Ā  In the past, I had experienced those ā€œlooksā€ (you know what I am talking about) or even stares that convey at best, confusion and at worse, judgment.Ā  I was encouraged by this woman’s smile.Ā  Samantha and I persevered.

Rejoicing in Communion

Soon it was time to participate in communion and we dutifully got up and followed our row toward the front of the church.Ā  Only a minor glitch—we were not on our Pastor’s side of the church and Samantha will only take communion from Father Joe if he is there.Ā  So we had to ā€œjumpā€ lines, but no one even seemed to notice.

We got back to our pew, and I struggled to overcome my emotions.Ā  Tears fell down my face as I realized that we would actually make it through the whole Mass like any typical family!Ā  Could it really be so?

Yes, as the last hymn rang out, we again enjoyed the experience of being awash in music one last time.Ā  And as those young children, having received their First Holy Communion, filed out ahead of our Pastor, I quietly rejoiced in an important first of our own.

This may have just been one in many, many Sunday Masses to come, but I will never forget it.Ā  My daughter is growing up and growing in her faith, as am I.Ā Ā  Alleluia, Alleluia.Ā  Thanks be to God.

ā€œThis is the day that the Lord has made, Let us rejoice and be glad in it.ā€
Psalm 118:24

What Milestones Have You Rejoicing?

Have your children with special needs reached a long awaited milestone lately? Leave a comment so we can rejoice with you, too!

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Special needs inclusion became joy to guest blogger Karen Jackson as her child who lives with autism participated in the rite of confirmation at her church.

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Karen Jackson is the Executive Director ofĀ Faith Inclusion Network (FIN) of Hampton RoadsĀ where she lives with her husband and three children in Norfolk, VA. She is also the author ofĀ Loving Samantha. You can connect with Karen at theĀ Faith Inclusion NetworkĀ page.

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Special Needs Church Support: Advice from a Parent

Special Needs Church Support: Advice from a Parent

Special Needs Church Support: Advice from a Parent

Special needs and Sue Badeau are a great pair, as the August 2012 interview series about adopting children with terminal special needs shows. Today, she’s back to answer one more question I asked during the interview: What can churches do to support families with children who have terminal special needs? She answered with three pieces of practical advice.

Special Needs Church Support: Tip 1

I would like to see churches play a stronger role in supporting families caring for children with special needs and those who are terminally ill.Ā  While our church has ā€œbeen thereā€ for us, they often did not know how to best support us.Ā  For example, there were long periods of years when some of our children simply could not come to church due to their medical conditions.Ā  This meant that Hector and I had to take turns attending church so that one of us could stay home.Ā  Wouldn’t it have been great if the church had offered to set up a schedule of volunteers to come to our home on Sunday mornings and stay with our sons on a rotating basis so we could attend church together?

Special Needs Church Support: Tip 2

Another example—we have many children with significant mental health diagnoses and behavioral health challenges.Ā  These children are the ones who sometimes stray into drug addictions and behaviors that are very challenging, such as stealing or running away.Ā  Wouldn’t it be great if a small group of caring adults from church made a covenant to pray every day for your child and checked in with you from time to time to ask how to best pray?

Special Needs Church Support: Tip 3

A final example—often the child with the most severe challenges or terminal illness is not the only child in the family and yet requires an inordinate amount of the parents’ time and attention.Ā  Perhaps the needs of this child also stretch the family budget to the breaking point.Ā  Wouldn’t it be great if the church found ways to support the other child or children in the family by taking them to the movies or providing a scholarship so they can attend a week of summer camp or take ballet lessons?

These are just a few examples of ways that churches could take initiative and provide supportive pastoral care and fellowship for families going through difficult challenges while raising children with special needs or who are terminally ill.Ā  While it is true that these parents could be more pro-active and ask for this help, they are often too exhausted and overwhelmed to do so.Ā  If the church could stand in the gap for these parents and take the initiative to pro-actively support them, it would be a ministry worthy of a King!

More Special Needs Church Support Advice

Thank you, Sue, for those examples of practical ways for churches to support our kids. For more ideas of what your church or you can do, check out these posts:

You can read more of the Badeau’s story in this article: The Children of Strangers

As always, your tips are appreciated, too. So chime in below with your ideas about how churches can support special needs families.Ā 

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