Who Are You? A Biblical Answer

Who Are You? A Biblical Answer

Who Are You? A Biblical Answer

Who are you? That’s a question we ask about our children, but perhaps more often about those with disabilities and special needs. Guest blogger Mark Arnold gives a hope-filled, biblical answer.

How do we view children or young people with additional needs? Do we think about them as problems to solve? How do we perceive how God can use them to evangelize? Are they just children who are autistic, dyslexic, blind, deaf, physically disabled, or non-verbal? 

They may be many of these thing, but are they just what people see them to be? Or are they so much more than they seem? God sees them as much more. He speaks through them to share the gospel with the world? Here are words from God about how he answers the question, “Who are you?”

You are made in the image of God. So God created human beings in his own likeness. He created them to be like himself. Genesis 1:27a

You are amazingly and wonderfully made. How you made me is amazing and wonderful. I praise you for that. What you have done is wonderful. I know that very well. Psalm 139:14

You are eternally loved by God. I have loved you with a love that lasts forever. I have kept on loving you with a kindness that never fails. Jeremiah 31:3

You are God’s children. Some people did accept him and did believe in his name. He gave them the right to become children of God.  John 1:12

 You are Jesus’ friend: I am the vine. You are the branches. If you remain joined to me, and I to you, you will bear a lot of fruit. John 15:5a

You are full of joy. And that is not all. We are full of joy in God because of our Lord Jesus Christ.” Romans 5:11a

You are at peace with God. Those who belong to Christ Jesus are no longer under God’s judgment. Romans 8:1

You are on God’s side. What should we say then? Since God is on our side, who can be against us? Romans 8:31

You are inseparable from the love of Jesus. Who can separate us from Christ’s love?… No! In all these things we are more than winners! We owe it all to Christ, who has loved us. Romans 8:35…37

You are God’s temple. Don’t you know that you yourselves are God’s temple? Don’t you know that God’s Spirit lives among you?” 1 Corinthians 3:16

You are one with Jesus in spirit. Whoever is joined to the Lord becomes one with him in spirit. 1 Corinthians 6:17

You are part of the body of Christ. There is one body, but it has many parts. But all its many parts make up one body. It is the same with Christ. We were all baptized by one Holy Spirit. And so we are formed into one body. 1 Corinthians 12:12-13a

You are the sweet fragrance of Christ. God considers us to be the pleasing smell that Christ is spreading. 2 Corinthians 2:15

You can do anything through Christ’s strength. I can do all this by the power of Christ. He gives me strength. Philippians 4:13

You are completely forgiven through Jesus, Because of what the Son has done, we have been set free. Because of him, all our sins have been forgiven. Colossians 1:14

You are complete. Because you belong to Christ, you have been made complete. Colossians 2:10a

You are a child of light. All of you are children of the light. 1 Thessalonians 5:5

You are Jesus’ brothers and sisters: Jesus is not ashamed to call them his brothers and sisters. Hebrews 2:11

You are holy and chosen: “Holy brothers and sisters, God chose you to be his people. Hebrews 3:1

You are children of God, and Jesus protects them: “We know that those who are children of God do not keep on sinning. The Son of God keeps them safe. The evil one can’t harm them. 1 John 5:18

Our children are more than what people may see. They are loved more than they, or we, can imagine. They are valued more than all the gold and jewels on Earth. Let’s remember these verses when we meet these wonderful people and ask the question, “Who are you?”

All Bible verses were taken from the Biblica NIrV Accessible Edition, with permission.

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Mark Arnold is the Additional Needs Ministry Director at Urban Saints, a leading national Christian children’s and youth organization. He is co-founder of the Additional Needs Alliance, a national and international advocate for children and young people with additional needs or disabilities. Mark is a Churches for All and Living Fully Network partner, a member of the Council for Disabled Children and the European Disability Network. He writes an additional needs column for Premier Youth and Children’s Work (YCW) magazine and blogs at The Additional Needs Blogfather. He is father to James, who has autism spectrum condition, associated learning disability, and epilepsy. To find out more about how Mark’s work can help you, contact him at: marnold@urbansaints.org or @Mark_J_Arnold.

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Is There Any Hope for our Children with Disabilities?

Is There Any Hope for our Children with Disabilities?

Is There Any Hope for our Children with Disabilities?

Is there any hope? Now there’s a question every parent caring for a child with disabilities and special needs ponders. Guest blogger Kimberly Drew is back to point readers to the source of her hope as she and her husband raise two daughters with disabilities.

I keep asking that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the glorious Father,
may give you the Spirit
of wisdom and revelation, so that you may know him better.
I pray that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you,
the riches of his glorious inheritance in his holy people, 
and his incomparably great power for us who believe.
Ephesians 1:17-19a (NIV)

I sat in a waiting room of a children’s hospital dedicated to those with special needs. It’s a small hospital, and the waiting room was packed. My daughter Abbey was around 10 at the time, and we were there for a routine appointment. I was irritated about the wait when an ambulance transfer showed up with a little boy confined to a hospital bed. There were feeding tubes, trach tubes, and all kinds of other medical leads coming out of this little guy. His mom walked alongside the paramedics and stayed with her son while he got checked in. She rubbed his forehead and kissed his chee. A nurse suctioned his trach. I looked around the room at all the children with disabilities and their parents and felt hopeless. What are we all doing here? This life is too hard, it’s too painful! What’s the point of it all!?

Is there any hope?

I know I’m not the only parent who has felt that way because I have talked to so many of you who have wrestled with those very thoughts. It’s really important for us to recognize that this pursuit of truth leads to the answers that quiet our soul’s questions. Time in God’s Word is what strengthens our ability to process our unique and sometimes painful experiences. If we are in Christ Jesus, we have a living hope that is not only meant to be known, but to be experienced. Paul prays for the Ephesians to have the eyes of their hearts enlightened so that they may know  (emphasis mine) the hope to which Christ calls us, the riches of our inheritance in Him, and the incomparable power of Christ in our lives.

Psalm 119:114 says this about the Lord: You are my refuge and my shield; I have put my hope in your word.

Sometimes people look at our life and say that it’s really hard. I won’t argue that having two disabled children is sometimes heartbreaking. But is there any hope? The answer is yes! We still have joy and hope. People ask my husband Ryan and me how we handle it the way we do. There’s only one word: Jesus. The work of his Holy Spirit, and the truth of God’s word has changed us from the inside out. 

Jeremiah 29:12-13 says Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. If you are feeling hopeless today, I encourage you to seek God’s Word. Christ is a refuge and shield. This hope, this inheritance, this power of Christ is meant to be known and experienced!

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Kimberly grew up and went to college in the small town of Upland, IN. She graduated from Taylor University with a degree in Elementary Education in 2002. While at TU, she married her college sweetheart and so began their adventure! Ryan and Kimberly have three amazing kids on earth (Abigail, Jayden, and Cooper), and a baby boy waiting for them in heaven. Their daughter Abigail (Abbey) has multiple disabilities including cerebral palsy, a seizure disorder, hearing loss, microcephaly, and oral dysphagia. She is the inspiration behind Kimberly’s  desire to write. In addition to being a stay at home mom, Kimberly has been serving alongside her husband in full time youth ministry for almost fourteen years. She enjoys working with the senior high girls, scrapbooking, reading, and music. You can visit Kimberly at her website, Promises and Perspective.

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The Quilt

The Quilt

The Quilt

The Quilt is blogger Stephanie Ballard’s latest poem about being the parent of a child with a medical condition. In it, she transparently describes the blessings, fears, and feelings she continues to experience as her son gets older.

 

The Quilt

What if we are but a thread
In life’s grand tapestry?
What if there has been a plan
That we just cannot see?
Each thread entwines with others
In ways we had not planned.
I trust that there will come a day
When we will understand.

I dreamt a perfect life for you,
One without such trials.
A life with love and laughter,
Happiness and smiles.
And still, I often wonder–
Would I have changed a thing?
Still, I often ask myself,
“What will our future bring?”

And then somebody stops me
And says, “You’re very strong.”
And it remains my secret…
They couldn’t be more wrong.
It’s not my strength that gets me through.
It’s my hope for another tomorrow.
It’s leaning on Someone much greater
Who leads me through my pain and sorrow.

I realize now, how blessed I am
That my child is still here.
A miracle, each day we have,
And worth my every fear.
Pictures flash through my mind’s eye;
Each face, each life, each name.
Our paths crossed for a reason,
I’ll never be the same.

When my life is at its end,
And heaven lies within my sight,
I like to imagine an angel will come,
And I’ll know everything’s all right.
God Himself will take my hand
And show me the life I’ve built.
Much to my amazement,
He’ll lift up a beautiful quilt.

The craftsmanship? Amazing!
The stitches all etched with great care.
I’ll see my life, its ups and downs
In each and every square.
“Do you see your life,” God asks,
“Within each stitch I’ve sewn?
Two stitches are in every row.
You’ve never walked alone.

“Every tear and dream and hope
And all things left unsaid
Are etched into this fabric
With everlasting thread.
Every person you have touched,
Each life that shaped your heart
Lies here within your life’s quilt
Of which I’ve been a part.

“See here where it has been well-worn
And left a little tattered?
You faced your greatest hardships there
And learned what really mattered.
Here, where it’s embroidered
With intricate details,
This is where you have loved others;
Remember, that love never fails.

“Here the pattern changes
In a most amazing way.
This is where you thanked me
For yet another day.”
I ran my fingers down each stitch.
I couldn’t help but stare
As I could see my Master’s hand
In each and every square.

I dreamt a perfect life for you.
God chose this path instead.
You were sewn into my life
With God’s most special thread.

~Stephanie Ballard

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More Than Worried

More Than Worried

More Than Worried

Join the Different Dream gang as we welcome new guest blogger, Stephanie McKeever today. She confesses she is often worried and more than worried about IEP meetings as a special needs mom. What she has to say may sound familiar to you, too.

More Than Worried

Have you ever let your mind wander and let worry take over your thoughts, your days, nights, your attitude?
No?
Me neither.

Ugh.

The number of times I have given something to God and then taken it back again, honestly, it’s ridiculous. The amount of worry–and more than worry–I allow things to have over my mind is, well, mind-boggling. I am nothing if not consistent. I can be a bit impatient when it comes to God’s time versus my time when handling life. And I have been proven wrong time and again.

I had an IEP for my child, recently. Yes, I am still hammering away at IEPs. If you follow me on my website, then you know I’ve had some major life changes lately. However, freedom from IEP meetings were not one of those changes. The meeting had me worried.

Is there a word for more than worried?

The more than worried that kept me talking to myself in the car, into the bathroom silence (the only room where there is mom-silence), and stewing in the night. I had already had one pre-meeting, and I did not handle it all that well. So this time, I needed to step up my IEP game. But what if the IEP team came with the same offerings that had already kept me awake at 2 in the morning? What if they wore at the same soft spots that had me so rattled at the last meeting?

I am not proud of letting this more than worried conversation with God go on until I pulled out of my driveway to go the meeting.

Lightbulb! 

“Stephanie, why don’t you hush at this meeting and let God do what God does? Or maybe admit God has been doing His thing all along?”

Ya’ think?

Remember, I am consistent when it comes to my hardheadedness. But fast forward and what do you think happened?

Yep. God showed up when I shut up.

I am not saying God changed every single IEP meeting exactly the way I prayed it into action right before each meeting. But this particular meeting a reminder that God has shown up every single time over time. Occasionally, it takes more time than my limited time table for His work to be done. God has His own time table, and His timing is always best.

Sometimes His time is now.
Other time, I have to watch and see what God’s gonna do.
He never fails us.

Wait for the Lord; be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord. 
Psalm 27:14

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My husband and I are parents of all boys, one of whom was a young adult with both physical and intellectual disabilities. I don’t always know what I’m doing as I parent these guys. But what I do know is God is teaching me big things through our trials that I probably would have never learned without them. You can find more from me at  www.stephaniemckeever.comon Facebook, and on Twitter @stefmckeever.

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To My Son Before They Label You with Autism

To My Son Before They Label You with Autism

To My Son Before They Label You with Autism

Before they label you with autism. No parent wants to pen a letter to a child before that happens. But this post is an example for parents of what to say and how to say it. Thank you, guest blogger Amy Felix, for saying what many parents need to hear.

My Son,

The doctors tell me that you have autism. That, though you’re not quite old enough for them to make an official diagnosis, all of the signs are there. Soon, the world will label you. Many will see you through the lens of disability. Life will change. Before it does, I wanted to write to you. To tell you what I see in you. To tell you what will remain the same…

You’re strong, brilliant, and hand-crafted in the image of God. Look no further than His Word for the truth of who you are. No label can define you. Never let anyone convince you you’re anything less than priceless.

I love you fiercely. Nothing can separate you from my love. Nothing. No words can express the depth of it. No label, diagnosis, or struggle could ever change it. My love for you is endless.

We are a team. Your battles are my battles. When you hurt, I hurt. When you struggle, I struggle. I will fight for what’s best for you, fight for all that you deserve, until the day I die. I will push you to reach your goals and I will lead you in running this race with endurance. You may encounter many hardships, but you’ll never face them alone.

God’s purpose and plan for your life is bigger than you could ever imagine. Never let the world drag you down. Don’t lose sight of your mission.

You are worthy of respect. People may not always give it to you; sometimes you’ll need to work hard to earn it. You need to be respectful. God created that person who’s tearing you down; because He loves them, you are called to as well. Don’t be afraid to stand up for what you deserve, but choose your words carefully.

I’m proud of you. Not just because I’m your mother, but because I see your determination to achieve…because when you fall, as we all do, you always get back up and try again.

I believe in you. Always will. I’ll be here to guide you in truth and compassion as you reach for your dreams and beyond. Never underestimate yourself. Through Christ, you can do all things. Even when you find yourself feeling lost, remember that God can use any situation for good.

You are a gift. I have never, not for a single moment, wanted a different child. I’ve never wanted to change you. I never will. You are exactly who you are meant to be and who you are is amazing. I am privileged and honored to be your mama.

Lastly, if I could give you anything, I’d give you the passion to live out 1 Corinthians 16:13-14. Be on guard. Stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be strong. And do everything with love.

By Your Side,
Mom

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My name is Amy Felix. I’ve been married for 10 years to a guy who’s totally out of my league. I’m a homeschooling mom to 4 kids, ranging in age from 9 to 2 years. That’s really enough work on it’s own but, because I love it, I’m a photographer as well. And, in my spare time, I write. My faith is the driving force behind my special needs blog: Appointed To Hope. I’m a firm believer in being real, transparent, and using the gifts of this journey as a way to relate to others in their joy as well as their sorrow. To read more about my adventures in special needs parenting, visit my website at www.appointedtohope.com.

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