Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 2

Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 2

Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 2

PTSD in a mental illness not understood by many people. People who do know about PTSD in children often have many misconceptions about it. While writing, Does My Child Have PTSD? I discovered 10 common myths and misconceptions about PTSD in children. In my latest video for Rising Above Ministries (RAM), I exchange 5 more myths for facts about PTSD in children

To watch the video click on Myths and Misconceptions about PTSD in Children, Part 2.

You can find more information about this subject in the Different Dream blog post, 10 Myths about PTSD in Children. A very in depth look at the 10 myths is included in Does My Child Have PTSD?

For the rest of the RAM videos in this series, check out these links:

Episode 1: Special Needs Parenting Is Different Dream Living
Episode 2: Childhood Trauma by any Other Name Is Still Traumatic
Episode 3: Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 1

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Jolene Philo is the author of the Different Dream series for parents of kids with special needs. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. She’s also the creator and host of the Different Dream website. Sharing Love Abundantly With Special Needs Families: The 5 Love Languages® for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, and at Amazon.

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Creating a Legacy of Love and Hope for Children with PTSD

Creating a Legacy of Love and Hope for Children with PTSD

Creating a Legacy of Love and Hope for Children with PTSD

Too often, discussions about children with PTSD descend into a litany of gloom and doom. Foster and adoptive parent, Kim Combes, who is also a mental health therapist, is here with words of hope and encouragement for those caring for children with PTSD.

Creating a Legacy of Love and Hope for Children with PTSD

“Trauma changes the biology of the brain,
but just ONE secure, loving and nurturing relationship
also changes the biology of the brain.”
Dr. Bruce Perry

Dr. Bruce Perry is my “rock star” in the human service field. He and his researchers are on the cutting edge of investigating children with PTSD, and how it affects those who have come from very difficult and traumatic backgrounds. In fact, I utilize his materials as I do my own presentations which are geared towards foster/adoptive parents, social workers, teachers, day care providers and others – all of whom have children with difficult and challenging behaviors in their charge.

Gloom and Doom for Children with PTSD

Having been in the counseling arena in some capacity or another for over three and a half decades, I can confirm the veracity of the above quote. Research has shown tangible evidence of the heinous results of trauma…relationships that have been marred by such things as neglect, physical and sexual abuse, domestic violence, and substance abuse in children’s lives.

MRI scans clearly show brain dysfunction in those with multiple ACEs (Adverse Childhood Experiences), pictures that resemble the “dark side of the moon” with black crater-like imaging throughout. However, when the same child is placed in a thriving environment in as little time as 6 months to a year, with all needs being met, an MRI photo will start showing bright colors – reds, purples, etc., displaying areas where healing is taking place and synapses are connecting in healthy ways.

It was formerly thought that once a brain was damaged, repair was not an option. Studies have since conclusively shown that previous thinking was in error. For example, my wife and I took our adoptive toddler son (born to parents both having intellectual disabilities) to a geneticist 17 years ago. It was thought by the placing social workers that Logan had some “syndrome,” the name of which I can no longer remember. Tests came back negative, thankfully, but I will always remember what the examining doctor told Diane and me. “You cannot change the hard drive a baby is born with, but you can enhance that hard drive by the software you put into it.” Wow, the validity of Dr. Perry’s research, reworded in computer terminology.

Hope for Children with PTSD and their Parents

As Logan grew we did our best to stimulate and challenge his brain while providing for him a safe and nurturing home environment. Now, at 17 1/2 years of age, he has already exceeded the prognosis we were given from professionals when we received him in our family at 10 1/2 months old. His brain, before he was removed from his bio-parents at 3 months, was in “failure to thrive” mode. Neglect of his basic needs so early on did indeed negatively affect him. Left for hours in a car seat by his caregivers, with very little or no stimulation, brought him close to death before DHS could place him in foster care. The software we installed upon his entrance into our family, did not completely reverse what genes and history did to his command center, but he is much further along than what genes and traumatic history would have initially dictated.

My son’s story is but just one of myriad stories I’ve heard from others or experienced firsthand over the course of my career. While PTSD indeed has severe consequences on children enduring tumultuous and chaotic situations, the outcomes do not have to be all gloom and doom. One does not have to be psychologically savvy to do profound work in helping overcome ACEs. Anyone can be audaciously present in a youngster’s life, creating an environment of hope and a legacy of love for those who desperately need both.

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Mr. Kim Combes, M.Ed., has been in the human service field since 1980. He has been a residential treatment counselor/therapist, an educational aide, a DHS social worker, an in-home worker and foster/adoptive parent. Kim has fostered over 35 teen boys since 1994. He is currently a national presenter from Colo, IA, having spoken at numerous conferences across the U.S. Too, he and wife, Diane, have adopted five special needs children, with the youngest still at home. Kim is a published freelance writer. His book, Walk in a Manner Worthy: A Voice in the Foster and Adoptive Care Wilderness, was published in 2020.

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Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 1

Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 1

Myths about PTSD in Children, Part 1

What comes to your mind when you hear about PTSD in children? This childhood mental illness is not well known to the general public. That’s why there’s a good chance that some of your first thoughts are misconceptions.

While writing, Does My Child Have PTSD? I discovered 10 common myths and misconceptions about PTSD in children. In my latest video for Rising Above Ministries (RAM), I debunk 5 myths many people believe are true.

To watch the video click on Myths and Misconceptions about PTSD in Children, Part 1.

You will find more information about this subject in the Different Dream blog post, 10 Myths about PTSD in Children. A very in depth look at the 10 myths is included in Does My Child Have PTSD?

For the rest of the RAM videos in this series, check out these links:

Episode 1: Special Needs Parenting Is Different Dream Living
Episdoe 2: Childhood Trauma by any Other Name Is Still Traumatic

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The Difference Between Childhood Trauma and Childhood PTSD

The Difference Between Childhood Trauma and Childhood PTSD

The Difference Between Childhood Trauma and Childhood PTSD

What’s the difference between childhood trauma and childhood PTSD? That’s a question frequently asked by parents, teachers, and medical professionals who work with children. Distinguishing the difference between childhood trauma and childhood PTSD is also crucial for anyone working with and caring for children.

That’s why the question is addressed in the second episode of my PTSD in kids series at Rising Above Ministry (RAM). This episode also explains how the terminology about childhood trauma and childhood PTSD is changing and evolving as more is learned about it.  To watch the video, click on Defining Childhood Trauma and Childhood PTSD.

To read more about this topic, visit Childhood Trauma by any Other Name Is Still Traumatic. To watch the first episode of the RAM series, click on Special Needs Parenting Is Different Dream Living.

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When PTSD in Children Is Misdiagnosed as ADHD

When PTSD in Children Is Misdiagnosed as ADHD

When PTSD in Children Is Misdiagnosed as ADHD

Did you know that post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) is often misdiagnosed in kids as attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD)? Guest blogger and ABA therapist, Ruth Stieff, explains how’s she’s learned to determine the difference between ADHD and PTSD in children in this post.

“You mean it’s not ADHD?” This is a comment that is heard around the disability and social service community everyday. If you have a child that has been diagnosed with ADHD and nothing is working, maybe, you need to look a little further. You may ask, “How do I know if it will take longer with the current treatment plan or is it the wrong diagnosis?” Great question and there are a few red flags to look for when little or no progress is seen.

  • Is the work the therapist is doing with your child making any difference? This assumes that you are pursuing treatment and following through with the therapist’s counsel at home. If you have not sought out therapy for ADHD, that is where to start.
  • The quantity of pharmaceuticals your child takes is rising. A prescription will not solve all the issues. Individual and family therapy is needed. The strategies that aid a person with ADHD or other diagnosis must be learned and practiced.
  • A therapist adds more diagnoses for your child. When I see a child diagnosed with ADHD with autism tendencies, Oppositional Defiant Disorder, General Anxiety Disorder or other similar disorders, I begin asking questions. I remember a conversation with parents who had a child who had a long list of diagnosis and was taking large doses of medications, “Do you feel this is really the issue?” Their answer was “No.”

With that child, I began asking questions related to life experiences. I was looking for clues of trauma. PTSD in children is a complex issue. What questions need to be asked?

  1.  Pre birth trauma. This could be physical or emotional. If the child is adopted, you may have little knowledge of this. Was the child exposed to substance abuse in-vitro?
  2.  Birth trauma. Once again, it could be physical or emotional. This would include a life-threatening circumstance in the first hours/days after birth. This includes being away from the mother for tests or in intensive care. Pain associated with this can cause trauma. If the child was taken from the mother and placed in the hands of an orphanage, a foster care home, or the adopting family, there are many traumatic and attachment issues associated with this.
  3.  Trauma in the early years. This could come in many forms. Neglect, abuse, medical procedures, multiple placements with family or in foster care, divorce, death of a significant person in the child’s life.
  4.  Trauma in elementary or later can include any of the above that happen during this time or things unresolved from earlier times.

If your child does not respond to cognitive behavior therapy or anything based on applied behavioral analysis, look at possible trauma or attachment issues. Many attachment and trauma difficulties mirror symptoms of ADHD or high functioning autism. The difference is that the strategies used in these neurological diagnoses don’t usually work if trauma is the underlying problem. Most schools use an approach that rewards good behavior and looks for motivators to do it. This may have a small amount of success but normally is short-lived. Once you have a trauma diagnosis and begin to use more helpful strategies, you will play a new role advocating for trauma based approaches at school.

In this scenario you might say, of course it’s not ADHD. Hopefully, it doesn’t take a long time down this road to figure out that your child has issues different than ADHD! It is a complicated journey but parents know this child better than anyone else so they can often know when the diagnosis is not quite a fit. That’s why there is no advocate like a loving and determined parent!

Your Questions about ADHD and PTSD in Children?

Has this post stirred up questions about your child’s special needs diagnosis? Feel free to leave them, so Ruth can answer them. 

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Ruth Stieff is a wife, mother and owner of One Piece LLC . She is passionate about helping children with learning differences make progress and helping parents normalize family life.

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