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I Don’t Want to Say Good-Bye

I Don’t Want to Say Good-Bye

Being a prairie girl, I’m usually ready to bid the mountains adeui after visitings places filled with peaks and valleys. But not today.

Today, I don’t want to say good-bye to this steep, rugged landscape that makes my morning walks a challenge. I don’t want to say good-bye to meadows filled with mountain daisies, the osprey nesting in the towering cedar by a swift-flowing stream, to the buck that rests in the ridge right behind our camper.

Today, I don’t want to say good-bye to mornings overflowing with work crews and hammers and power tools and cooking in the kitchen. I don’t want to say good-bye to the lazy afternoons with time for naps and swimming and hikes and horses. I don’t want to say good-bye to three meals a day that leave my taste buds titilated, my stomach full, and my mind satisfied by interesting conversation and companionship.

But most of all, I don’t want to say good-bye to the people gathered here from all around the world, people I see for a week in July and think about all year long. I don’t want to say good-bye to week spent elbow to elbow with four generations of family passing down stories, sharing recipes, reminiscing, working side-by-side cleaning the bath house and doing dishes on KP duty, preparing the younger generations for their march into the future.

Today, I don’t want to say good-bye. So I won’t. Instead, I will take the mountain and all the people on it back to Iowa. I will store a year’s worth of memories in my heart. And when we leave, I’ll start dreaming of next July when we come back to the mountain again.

Where All the Women Are Strong

Where All the Women Are Strong

Shadow Valley Family Camp is not for wimpy women. With the exception of one female cleverly camouflaged behind her camera. Megan, pictured above, is just one of a crew of for women who spent an entire morning peeling logs.

What’s the proof of their heartiness?
These women volunteer for the crews they’re on.

Their crew of four was just one of several crews populated with strong women who don’t blink at daunting tasks like chopping firewood, hauling furniture out of the upper story of a structure accessible via a precariously narrow gang plank, hammering floor joists, and operating noisy power tools capable of removing fingers. The fact that they never blink at the task set before them is a well-documented fact. Just ask the wimpy woman behind the camera. In every picture she takes, these hearty women have their eyes wide open.

They even smile when they volunteer to be on a crew.
Sounds crazy, but it’s true.

And when they’re not at Shadow Valley? These women also volunteer to live in places like Korea. And Siberia. And Alaska. And Canada. And the ones who live in cushier climes? They go on mission trips to Siberia. Or they teach elementary school, which is pretty much the same thing as visiting Siberia.

These women even smile when they return from mission trips.
Or at the end of a school year.

Or when they come to Shadow Valley. Because living here is way easier than life for the rest of the year. Their presence is one reason for coming to Shadow Valley. Being around them is part inspiration, part example, and part encouragement. It’s a healthy dose of vicarious living. The wimpy women get to imagine what it’s like to pound nails or endure through a Siberian winter or a Korean school year, minus the sweat and the shivers.

Plus, being with these strong women makes me smile.
From behind the camera, of course.

We Lift Our Eyes Up

We Lift Our Eyes Up

As was mentioned in yesterday’s entry (which didn’t post until today due to internet-in-the-boonies issues), the weather introduced a chilly, wet number on the first official day of camp. Day 2 dawned sunny and cool, but by lunchtime the clouds moved in, turning things chilly again. The showers held off until supper, but we stayed happy, safe and dry beneath the pavilion.

After the meal was over, folks stayed put, talking while they waited for the rain to end and the hymn sing to begin. The sun, on the other hand, didn’t wait for anything. Not even for the rain to stop. It showed up for the hymn sing a little early, and pretty soon our side of the mountain echoed with shouts.

“A half-rainbow!”
“Everybody, look at the rainbow.”
“It’s getting bigger!”
“It’s all the way across the sky.”
“Come quick!”
“Look!”
“Look!”
“Look before it fades away!”

The cries of wonder faded with the passing of the fractured light. But a bit of magic, a touch of promise lingered all around, weaved in and out of the music, breathed hope into every heart. We sang with fervor, and our voices lingered over the words of the last song, unwilling to let go of the rainbow, determined to cling to the promises of our faith.

We lift our eyes up unto the mountains.
Where does our help come from?
Our help comes from you,
Maker of heaven, Creator of the earth.

Oh, how we need you, Lord.
You are our only hope.
You are our only prayer.
So we will wait for you to come and rescue us.
To come and give us life.

We lift our eyes up, unto the mountains.
Where does our help come from?

Come quickly, Lord Jesus! Come!

We’re Together at Camp, Rain or Shine

We’re Together at Camp, Rain or Shine

For the first time ever, we felt raindrops at Shadow Valley Family Camp. The gloomy, chilly weather had its upside. The deer were out in the middle of the day, which was as gray as dawn and dusk when they’re usually most active. And family members who arrived at camp early instigated a great sleeping space shuffle so those who were planning on tent dwellings (ourselves included) were moved inside. Yahoo!

However, the wet weather had a downside, also. The mosquitos, which like the deer usually wait to come out at dawn and dusk, sucked our blood mercilessly all day long. Campers who hoped to rectify their Vitamin D deficiencies were out of luck. And outdoor games, a favorite activity, were out of the question thanks to bugs and water.

By yesterday evening the gloom was lifting. This morning dawned sunny and bright and stayed clear until almost lunch time. Long enough for the work crews to peel logs and set up the Frisbee golf course, for the play crews to finger paint with pudding and hose off the slip and slide, and for the kitchen crew to tempt diners with more food in one day than they eat in two back home.

The clouds gathered again while we ate Utoff chicken and Pam’s featherbeds for lunch. But that gives everyone a cozy afternoon for catching up on important things like:

  • The toy horses eight-year-old Alaisyah received for her birthday a few days ago.
  • The progress of wedding plans for this year’s newly engaged couple.
  • Budget deficits and government cost-cutting measures in our respective states.
  • If there’s a can available for Kick the Can tonight – provided the mosquitoes don’t carry everyone off.
  • The idiosyncrasies of the camp automatic coffee makers.
  • Who likes which camp desserts best.
  • The diets we plan to start the day after leaving the mountain.

One gloomy afternoon isn’t enough time to catch up on every earth-shaking event from the past year. But it’s a good start. So take notice, old man weather. Whether you send the sun or the rain, you won’t dampen our spirits at Family Camp. We’re together, and we’re gonna have a good time, no matter what!

We Are So Blessed – Recycled

We Are So Blessed – Recycled

One year ago today our daughter married the love of her life, and we welcomed a new son into our family. Today’s recycled post, from July 12, 2010, looks back on the blessings of a day filled with family, friends, and frolic. And today’s hot, humid weather reminds me of one more blessing that should have made the list a year ago – an outdoor July wedding with temperatures in the low 80s. Even the weather on July 10, 2010 was blessed!

We Are So Blessed – Recycled

Wow! After weeks of planning and wedding tasks that bumped real life activities to the bottom of my to do list, the wedding of our daughter and new son is history. More details will be forthcoming, once I’m not so tired I nod off the minute I’m not moving, and more pictures will be posted once my sweet cousin assigned to taking candid shots has time to download and send them, but for today here are a few highlights:

Sunday morning’s rain tipped the scales in favor of moving the wedding ceremony to the pavilion in the park. Though the weather improved as the day progressed and the sun was shining for the ceremony, we were glad of the change in venue. The gnats and  mosquitoes were bothersome, even in the pavilion. They would have been unbearable in our yard.The bride was lovely and her new husband handsome. But their outward appearance is nothing compared to the maturity of their love for one another.

  • We are so grateful our daughter has such a devoted husband who appreciates who she is.
  • The flower lady, also known as my sister, outdid herself with the flowers. Who knew Queen Anne’s lace and purple cone flowers, combined with greenhouse roses and gladiolas could be so lovely?
  • The work done by the reception planner, also known as my friend Diana, was a gift I can never repay. She took a load off my shoulders by organizing food, materials, and workers…the day before heading to LaCrosse, Wisconsin for her last week of graduate school.
  • My long time son and new daughter deserve hugs and kisses for decorating the reception pavilion while I rode herd on the bride and bridesmaids back at the ranch until the ceremony.
  • We are blessed with loving family – from our new son’s parents and siblings pitching in to my sister doing the flowers, from one of my cousin’s daughters teaching ballroom dancing at the reception to the cousin who took the pictures, from my brother staying late to help Hiram load and return tables to everyone who participated in Anne and her husband’s joy.
  • We are blessed with a loving church family, young and old – sisters and brothers in Christ who came early and stayed late, contributed food, served food, helped with sound equipment, acted silly in the photo booth, hugged our children, and joined in the dancing and merriment.

Such fun. Such memories. Such a support system for us and such strength to lift our sweet children into adulthood. So many blessings. So much grace.

Our cup runneth over.
We are so grateful.
We are so blessed.

Thank you, dear God of all blessing.

Thank You, Uncle Leo

Thank You, Uncle Leo

This being a holiday weekend, I had no intention of blogging today. But, all weekend, Uncle Leo has been on my mind. He’s my mother’s brother, the only one of her eight siblings to serve in World War II.

 

Now eighty-eight, he lives alone on the old family farm since his wife died earlier this year. How often, I wonder, with nothing to distract him, do his horrible war memories return?

  • The memory of being drafted and going off to war instead of fulfilling his dream of studying history in college.
  • The memory of being a foot soldier in the Battle of the Bulge.
  • The memory of being left behind because the shrapnel in his foot didn’t allow him to march fast enough.
  • The memory of following behind, with only his gun, in the direction the rest of the soldiers were going, wondering if he would make it.
  • The memory of two showers in six months.
  • The memory of wet feet and being issued dry socks.The memory of coming home with untreated trench foot.

And does he sometimes remember the good things that came after those hard years?

  • The memory of his five children on the family farm, running free because so many from his generation protected our freedom.
  • The memory of his nieces and nephews playing ball in the pasture, using cow pies for bases.
  • The memory of picking sweet corn and sending burlap bags full of it home with his city sisters.
  • The memories of his mother’s rhubarb patch and peonies, rose bushes and huge garden.
  • The memories family picnics in the shady Pipestone parks that continue to this very day.
  • The memory of my sister and I finally hearing his story decades later, and offering inadequate but heartfelt thanks for his sacrifice.

Because of Uncle Leo and many others from his generation, including three of Mom’s brothers-in-law, we are able to celebrate another Fourth of July as free and independent citizens. My husband is able to mow the lawn and I can blog away, without concern or fear, because of brave men like Uncle Leo, Uncle Marvin, Uncle Ordel, and Uncle Jim.

Thank you, dear uncles, for another Independence Day.