by jphilo | Jul 7, 2017 | Books and Resources, Different Dream, PTSD
Effective Trauma Treatment for Nonverbal Children
Effective trauma treatment for nonverbal children doesn’t get talked about much (no pun intended), as I discovered recently during a Facebook group discussion.
A group member posed a question about trauma treatment for nonverbal children, and I passed it along to the group. Imagine my surprise when only one person had any suggestions. I reposted a question a week later in case anyone missed it the first time. A few parents said they hadn’t responded earlier because their children were verbal. But nobody added anything new to the discussion.
Resources about Trauma Treatment for Nonverbal Children
Our combined lack of knowledge has niggled at me ever since. So I did a little research on the subject and am passing what I found on to you.
- The resource mentioned in the Facebook group was about a therapy called neurological reorganization. Here’s the website for Bette Lamont, the therapist who helped the Facebook member and her family. I’m not familiar with this treatment method and am not endorsing the therapy or therapist. Be sure to thoroughly research the method and therapists before pursuing either.
- The National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN) has created a fact sheet about empirically supported treatments and promising practices they’ve developed and implemented. The NCTSN is a leader in the field and highly respected. The fact sheet page at their website lists several treatment methods that can be used with children from birth onward. Since babies are considered “nonverbal” from birth to age 3, my assumption is that those methods could be used with older nonverbal children, too.
- Another resource that might be helpful is Bessel van der Kolk’s amazing book The Body Keeps the Score. In it he clearly describes dozens of trauma treatment methods and their effectiveness. The information in the book provides many treatments parents can research and pursue on behalf of their children.
What Can You Add about Trauma Treatment Methods for Nonverbal Children?
If only I had more to pass along to you about trauma treatment methods for nonverbal children. I don’t, but perhaps you do. Please share what you know in the comment box. Perhaps your information will help nonverbal, traumatized children get the therapy they need!
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Jolene Philo is a published author, speaker, wife, and mother of a son with special needs.
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by jphilo | Apr 30, 2010 | Books and Resources, Different Dream, PTSD
When most people think of post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), they think of returning war veterans. If they think of PTSD in kids at all, it is associated with children in war zones or kids who are victims of sexual or physical abuse. But new research shows that the crippling mental health effects of PTSD can also be caused by medical procedures, divorce, adoption, and natural disasters.
National Institute of Mental Health
The National Institute of Mental Health’s website provides a wealth of information about PTSD in kids. You could spend an afternoon at the site and not get through everything it offers. Many of the brochures and articles can be downloaded from the website or ordered by phone.
National Child Traumatic Stress Network Brochure
One of the most informative and readable publications is the brochure put out by the National Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN). It can be downloaded at the website. Because finding it at the site takes quite a bit of time, you can also download it here:
NCTSN Brochure
If your child has endured medical trauma, you should download the brochure and visit the website for more information. While they don’t address medical trauma specifically, what you learn there could be a first step in restoring your child’s emotional and mental health.
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by jphilo | Mar 17, 2010 | Books and Resources, Different Dream, PTSD
If you’re the foster or adoptive parent of a child with special needs, thank you for opening your home to the most vulnerable and needy members of our society. Many of those children endured severe trauma before arriving in your safe and loving homes. And you, though not the cause of the trauma, deal with its effects every day.
Wounded Children, Healing Homes
You need much more than thanks and applause as you parent your kids. Your children need professional therapy and counseling in order to heal. You need practical support, encouragement and access to professional help to survive. You will learn about all those things in Wounded Children, Healing Homes: How Traumatized Children Impact Adoptive and Foster Families, released by Nav Press in January of 2010.
The book is co-authored by Jayne E. Schooler; Betsy Keefer Smalley, LSW; and Timothy J. Callahan, PSYD, with other chapters contributed by Elizabeth A. Tracy, Debra L. Shrier, and Grace Harris.
Help for Parents, Families and School
The book is divided into five parts. The first section is an introduction and the remaining parts are:
- Understanding Trauma and Its Impact on the Family
- Inside the Crisis of Adoption Breakdown
- The Child, the Family, and School
- Strategies for Successfully Parenting Traumatized Children
The final section is followed by two appendices. The first is titled Assessing Attachment-Readiness and Capabilities in Prospective Adoptive Parents. The second is Building a Support System and Finding Resources.
A Road Map, Not a Cure
The information in the book is more of a road map than cure for families living with deeply traumatized children. It gives parents strategies for creating safe, loving environments where children will gradually heal. It is realistic about the challenges involved, the effects on the family, the strain such children place on a marriage. But it also gives hope, provides resources, and acknowledges the reality of failure in some cases.
If you are an adoptive or foster parent caring for a deeply traumatized child, you should read this book. It not only provides information and strategies, but also explains why traumatized kids act like they do and how parents typically respond to them. What reassurance these words can be to parents dealing with difficult behaviors day after day.
After you read Wounded Children, Healing Homes, come back and leave a comment about what you read.
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by jphilo | Nov 25, 2009 | Books and Resources, Different Dream, PTSD
For the past few weeks, National Public Radio (NPR) has been airing a series called The Impact of War. While listening to several episodes that described the symptoms of PTSD in returning vets, the similarities to our son Allen’s PTSD symptoms (caused by early, repeated medical traumas from 1982 – 1986) were striking.
An Interview with General Eric Shinseki
In a November 13 interview with retired General Eric Shinseki, who is head of the Department of Veterans Affairs, he talked about an encounter with veterans during a recent speaking engagement. When he asked if any of them suffered from PTSD, no one said anything. So he asked the following questions:
- How many of you have a little trouble sleeping at night?
- Are you overly vigilant for threats in your own homes?
- Have you been having anger management problems?
Then, Shinseki said, “And then hands go up.”
The Sand Storm: Stories from the Front
In a November 14 episode, a clinical psychiatrist named Judith Broder describes her reaction to The Sand Storm: Stories from the Front, which was written by a Marine and featured monologues of those who served in Iraq and Afghanistan.
“The most horrifying aspect of it was the sense that I got that these were really just ordinary everyday guys, and they had seen things and done things that just shattered their whole sense of themselves,” says Broder. “And that they would all need help.” Broder has since started a program to help veterans recover from PTSD.
PTSD in Medically Traumatized Children
What General Shinseki and Broder said described Allen before he was treated for PTSD. For years, our son displayed the symptoms Shinseki mentioned. And as Broder said, he needed help. Thankfully he found help last December at Intensive Trauma Therapy, Inc., an outpatient clinic in Morganstown, West Virginia.
But Allen isn’t the only person struggling with PTSD caused by medical trauma at a young age. If you have a child exhibiting the symptoms above, and you suspect they are related to some sort of trauma (which can include the death of a loved one, divorce, a difficult move, sexual abuse, physical abuse, medical trauma or adoption) go to their website to learn more. Your child doesn’t need to suffer any more. Life-changing treatment is available that doesn’t require drugs or hospitalization in most cases.
After treatment, Allen turned to me and said, “Mom, I have my life back.”
Those were the sweetest words he’d ever spoken. I hope that one day, your child who is suffering from PTSD will say the same words to you.
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