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-Becoming advocates for kids with special needs was not part of our parenting job description when we were expecting our first child. It probably wasn’t part of yours, and it wasn’t part of John and Michelle Bartlett’s either. But after their son Jake was born, Michelle morphed into an extraordinary advocate for their son. Over the next few days, Michelle shares her journey with DifferentDream.com readers. Today, in Part 1 she describes how she became her son’s advocate.<\/em><\/p>\n

Michelle’s Special Needs Advocacy Journey<\/strong><\/p>\n

Jacob was first diagnosed with 4p- syndrome<\/a><\/span> when he was 7 months of age. We were told he would not live to 2 years of age. This year he will be 12 years old. We have had a few close calls over the years, but we are truly blessed to have him here still with us. He is also diagnosed with epilepsy<\/span><\/a>, CP<\/a><\/span>, PDD-NOS<\/a><\/span>, osteopenia<\/span><\/a>, and Mitochondrial Disorder<\/span><\/a>. Jake has been in and out of the hospitals for various surgeries for club feet, ear tubes, and hypospadias, but he has been in the hospital the most for uncontrollable seizures. The tonic-clonic seizures are from fever-related illnesses, and one time due to a surgery.<\/p>\n

We have spent a lot of time battling with the school districts to get Jake an appropriate education, and I have appealed many times with insurance companies to get things covered for him.\u00a0 I could easily write a book on schools, and one on insurance companies. I would also have to add a book about dealing with doctors as well.\u00a0 At times it is hard to get people to see past the diagnosis to the child. I tell families that the diagnosis is just words to describe a medical condition; it does not define who my child is. In fact how would we define a super cute, snuggly, awesome little boy?\u00a0\u00a0 He is impossible to define. He is Super Cool Man!<\/p>\n

I guess you could say our special needs journey has been pretty awesome. I have learned more than I ever thought possible. I always tell people parenting a typically developing child it has it sharp peaks when things happens, but you pretty much stay in the middle as far as what life gives you. With a child like Jake it is a constant up and down journey, but a journey I would do over again a million times over. We have lots of ups and downs and don\u2019t spend a lot of time in the middle. It is an intense roller coaster ride, but a blessed coaster.<\/p>\n

How Parenting Jake Changed Michelle and John<\/strong><\/p>\n

I am a much better person, and Jake challenges me daily. Our first priority in life is taking care of our son and providing him the best care possible. When he was younger, we spoiled Jake a lot since we were told he would not be with us a long time. I think subconsciously we did this without realizing we were spoiling him. He is now an 11-year-old boy that even though he is nonverbal he lets us know when he is unhappy. He yells at us when he is angry. So in the last year, we had to start treating him more like a typically developing 11-year-old and putting him in his room when he is being naughty. It felt weird at first putting him in a time out, but it was actually refreshing because we saw how much alike Jake was to other kids. He may be developmentally delayed, but behaviorally he is right on track.<\/p>\n

There are certain things that I focus on more than other things. An example would be that I am always working on his walking and using his legs, and do not work as hard on his academic skills. I think every family is different, so how a child functions not only depends on the level of disability but early intervention, schools, and what the parents focus on. I hope this makes sense. The other thing I learned was that Jake will do things when he wants to, and not when I want him to do it. It can be hard to back off on teaching a skill when you really want them to do it, but sometimes it is necessary. I have learned to have more patience, and let Jake develop at his own pace.<\/p>\n

How Parenting Jake Turned Michelle into a Special Needs Advocate<\/strong><\/p>\n

The things I have learned from Jake have carried over into every aspect of my life. My passion in life is now helping other families that have children with disabilities.\u00a0 I also learned to be an incredible advocate when it comes to the medical community and was able to provide information to my father in his last years of life.\u00a0 People have asked my advice on many other issues and having Jake has helped me prepare for so many things. My best advice for families is to slow down and climb into your child\u2019s world instead of making them fit into our world. Once I let go of developmental milestones things became so much better, and we have so much fun. Jacob has taught me to slow down and rejoice in the little things.<\/p>\n

What’s Your Advocacy Story?<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you’re the parent of a child with special needs, you’ve learned to be an advocate, too. So share your advocacy story in the comment box and come back tomorrow to learn more. See you then!<\/p>\n

Advocacy 101: A Mom Became a Special Needs Advocate, Part 2<\/a><\/span>
Advocacy 101: A Mom Became a Special Needs Advocate, Part 3<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n

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Michelle's Special Needs Advocacy Journey<\/h3>\nJacob was first diagnosed with 4p- syndrome<\/a> when he was 7 months of age. We were told he would not live to 2 years of age and this year he will be 12 years old. We have had a few close calls over the years, but we are truly blessed to have him here still with us. He is also diagnosed with epilepsy<\/a>, CP<\/a>, PDD-NOS<\/a>, osteopenia<\/a>, and Mitochondrial Disorder<\/a>. Jake has been in and out of the hospitals for various surgeries for club feet, ear tubes, hypospadia, but has been in the hospital the most for uncontrollable seizures. The tonic clonics are from fever related illnesses, and one time due to a surgery.\n\nWe have spent a lot of time battling with the school districts to get Jake an appropriate education, and I have appealed many times with insurance companies to get things covered for him.\u00a0 I could easily write a book on schools, and one on insurance companies. I would also have to add a book about dealing with doctors as well.\u00a0 At times it is hard to get people to see past the diagnosis to the child. I tell families that the diagnosis is just words to describe a medical condition; it does not define who my child is. In fact how would we define a super cute, snuggley, awesome little boy?\u00a0\u00a0 He is impossible to define. He is Super Cool Man!\n\nI guess you could say our special needs journey has been pretty awesome. I have learned more than I ever thought possible. I always tell people parenting a typically developing child it has it sharp peaks when things happens, but you pretty much stay in the middle as far as what life gives you. With a child like Jake it is a constant up and down journey, but a journey I would do over again a million times over. We have lots of ups and downs and don\u2019t spend a lot of time in the middle. It is an intense roller coaster ride, but a blessed coaster.\n

How Parenting Jake Changed Michelle and John<\/h3>\nI am a much better person, and Jake challenges me daily. Our first priority in life is taking care of our son, and providing him the best care possible. When he was younger we spoiled Jake a lot since we were told he would not be with us a long time. I think subconsciously we did this without realizing we were spoiling him. He is now an 11-year-old boy that even though he is non verbal he lets us know when he is unhappy. He yells at us when he is angry. So in the last year we had to start treating him more like a typically developing 11 year old and putting him in his room when he is being naughty. It felt weird at first putting him in a time out, and it was actually refreshing because we saw how much alike Jake was to other kids. He may be developmentally delayed but behaviorally he is right on track.\n\nThere are certain things that I focus on more than other things. An example would be that I am always working on his walking, and using his legs, and do not work as hard on his academic skills. I think every family is different, so how a child functions not only depends on the level of disability but early intervention, schools, and what do the parents focus on. I hope this makes sense. The other thing I learned was that Jake will do things when he wants to, and not when I want him to do it. It can be hard to back off on teaching a skill when you really want them to do it, but sometimes it is necessary. I have learned to have more patience, and let Jake develop at his own pace.\n

How Parenting Jake Turned Michelle into a Special Needs Advocate<\/h3>\nThe things I have learned from Jake have carried over into every aspect of my life. My passion in life is now helping other families that have children with disabilities.\u00a0 I also learned to be an incredible advocate when it comes to the medical community and was able to provide information to my father in his last years of life.\u00a0 People have asked my advice on many other issues and having Jake has helped me prepare for so many things. My best advice for families is to slow down and climb into your child\u2019s world instead of making them fit into our world. Once I let go of developmental milestones things became so much better, and we have so much fun. Jacob has taught me to slow down and rejoice in the little things.\n

What's Your Advocacy Story?<\/h3>\nIf you're the parent of a child with special needs, you've learned to be an advocate, too. So share your advocacy story in the comment box and come back tomorrow to learn about Caregiver's Ladder<\/a>, the parent support group Michelle formed. See you then!\n\nPart 2<\/a>\nPart 3<\/a>\n\nDo you like what you see at DifferentDream.com? You can receive more great content by subscribing to the quarterly Different Dream newsletter and signing up for the daily RSS feed delivered to your email inbox. 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