{"id":10681,"date":"2014-09-25T05:05:07","date_gmt":"2014-09-25T10:05:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/f06.70c.myftpupload.com\/?p=10681"},"modified":"2014-09-25T05:05:07","modified_gmt":"2014-09-25T10:05:07","slug":"8-parenting-truths-learned-grandparent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jolenephilo.com\/staging\/8-parenting-truths-learned-grandparent\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Parenting Truths Learned as a Grandparent"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; fullwidth=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_fullwidth_post_title featured_image=&#8221;off&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; title_font=&#8221;||||||||&#8221; title_text_color=&#8221;#42313A&#8221; title_font_size=&#8221;40px&#8221; meta_font_size=&#8221;14px&#8221; background_color=&#8221;#B4DBC0&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;50px||50px||false|false&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_fullwidth_post_title][\/et_pb_section][et_pb_section fb_built=&#8221;1&#8243; specialty=&#8221;on&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;0px||0px|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column type=&#8221;3_4&#8243; specialty_columns=&#8221;3&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;3.25&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;|||&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; custom_padding__hover=&#8221;|||&#8221;][et_pb_row_inner _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column_inner saved_specialty_column_type=&#8221;3_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_image src=&#8221;@ET-DC@eyJkeW5hbWljIjp0cnVlLCJjb250ZW50IjoicG9zdF9mZWF0dXJlZF9pbWFnZSIsInNldHRpbmdzIjp7fX0=@&#8221; align=&#8221;center&#8221; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.3&#8243; _dynamic_attributes=&#8221;src&#8221; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_image][et_pb_text _builder_version=&#8221;4.10.5&#8243; hover_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221; sticky_enabled=&#8221;0&#8243; custom_padding=&#8221;4px|||||&#8221;]<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><span style=\"font-size: small;\">\u00a0Photo Credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/commons.wikimedia.org\/wiki\/File:Child_pushing_grandmother_on_plastic_tricycle.jpg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Catherine Scott<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Our first grandchild was born two years ago, and somewhere in the past few months he&#8217;s transformed from a baby into a charming toddler. I recently spent three delicious days playing with him while his parents and my husband tended to some weekend projects.<\/p>\n<p>The long drive home gave me time to reflect upon how many parenting truths one small person could teach his grammy in such a short time. Several of them would have made a difference in how I parented our children way back the 1980s and 1990s. Since it&#8217;s too late for that, I&#8217;m passing them along for you to use in the here and now of 2014.<\/p>\n<h3>Parenting Truth #1: More Alike Than Different<\/h3>\n<p>The first parenting truth learned was this. Parenting kids with special needs is more like parenting typical kids than it is different. Both kinds of parenting takes a great deal of time and energy. Both require constant and continual sacrifices. Both are incredibly rewarding endeavors, as long as you&#8217;re good at the delayed gratification thing and can handle snot, slobber, pee, and poop.<\/p>\n<h3>Parenting Truth #2: Parenting Is a Young Person&#8217;s Game<\/h3>\n<p>Suffice it to say, I would not have survived three days with a toddler had I been in charge of meeting all his needs. Yes, we spent many hours together each day. But I did not change diapers, do laundry, feed him, or get up with him at night. Even so, it took me a day or two to recover after we arrived home. Parenting really is a young person&#8217;s game.<\/p>\n<h3>Parenting Truth #3: Appropriate Choice Is Essential<\/h3>\n<p>This is one of those parenting truths that requires translation. Here it is: <em>I used manipulation rather than appropriate choice far too often during my parenting years.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/specialneedsparenting.net\/8-parenting-truths\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">To read the rest of this post, please visit the Not Alone website.<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Do you like what you see at DifferentDream.com? You can receive more great content by subscribing to the quarterly Different Dream newsletter and signing up for the daily RSS feed delivered to your email inbox. 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She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. She\u2019s also the creator and host of the\u00a0Different Dream website.\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Sharing-Abundantly-Special-Needs-Families\/dp\/0802418627\/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=philo+chapman&amp;qid=1637163946&amp;sr=8-1\">Sharing Love Abundantly With Special Needs Families: The 5 Love Languages\u00ae for Parents Raising\u00a0Children with Disabilities<\/a>, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, and\u00a0at Amazon.<\/p>[\/et_pb_blurb][\/et_pb_column_inner][\/et_pb_row_inner][et_pb_row_inner _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_column_inner saved_specialty_column_type=&#8221;3_4&#8243; _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][et_pb_comments _builder_version=&#8221;4.4.2&#8243; custom_button=&#8221;on&#8221; button_text_color=&#8221;#42313A&#8221; button_bg_color=&#8221;#EBDCB2&#8243; global_colors_info=&#8221;{}&#8221;][\/et_pb_comments][\/et_pb_column_inner][\/et_pb_row_inner][\/et_pb_column][et_pb_column type=&#8221;1_4&#8243; 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I recently spent three delicious days playing with him while his parents and my husband tended to some weekend projects.\n\nThe long drive home gave me time to reflect upon how many parenting truths one small person could teach his grammy in such a short time. Several of them would have made a difference in how I parented our children way back the 1980s and 1990s. Since it's too late for that, I'm passing them along for you to use in the here and now of 2014.\n<h3>Parenting Truth #1: More Alike Than Different<\/h3>\nThe first parenting truth learned was this. Parenting kids with special needs is more like parenting typical kids than it is different. Both kinds of parenting takes a great deal of time and energy. Both require constant and continual sacrifices. 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