Refined by Fire: Two Reasons It\u2019s Hard to Put Down<\/h2>\n
First, the author tells a heartbreaking story of loss. In the span of a few years, Kenyon lost her mother Irma and then her husband David. Just as she discovered writing as a way to regain her emotional footing, her young grandson Jacob died of cancer.<\/p>\n
Second, she makes the story more compelling by being transparent. She lays her journey of grief before the reader, refusing to hide her emotional pain, her tears, her anger, her loneliness, and her doubts. We see grief take its toll on her relationships and especially on her youngest daughter, Abigail, who was just 8 when her father died.<\/p>\n
Refined by Fire: Snapshots of Grief<\/h2>\n
Though overwhelmed by grief and shedding tears every morning for years, Kenyon somehow writes her way through her grief. Throughout the book, excerpts from her blog and daily journals are featured:<\/p>\n
Grief at Ten and a Half Weeks<\/em> Each entry is a word picture, a snapshot of grief frozen in time. Between those entries, the reader sees grief melt and morph and reform as Kenyon questions God and hears him answer in sweet and unexpected ways. Though devastated by her losses, she begins to see God at work in her life. Her heart is still broken at the end of the book, but thanks to her determination to cling to God, she is also stronger and more capable than before.<\/p>\n Do you like what you see at DifferentDream.com? You can receive more great content by subscribing to the quarterly Different Dream newsletter and signing up for the daily RSS feed delivered to your email inbox. 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<\/a>\n\nI suspected, when asking Mary Potter Kenyon for a review copy of Refined by Fire<\/em><\/a>, that it would be a hard book to put down. Once I opened the book, my suspicions proved to be absolutely true. The book was nearly impossible to put down for two riveting reasons.\nRefined by Fire: Two Reasons It\u2019s Hard to Put Down<\/h2>\nFirst, the author tells a heartbreaking story of loss. In the span of a few years, Kenyon lost her mother Irma and then her husband David. Just as she discovered writing as a way to regain her emotional footing, her young grandson Jacob died of cancer.\n\nSecond, she makes the story more compelling by being transparent. She lays her journey of grief before the reader, refusing to hide her emotional pain, her tears, her anger, her loneliness, and her doubts. We see grief take its toll on her relationships and especially on her youngest daughter, Abigail, who was just 8 when her father died.\n
Refined by Fire: Snapshots of Grief<\/h2>\nThough overwhelmed by grief and shedding tears every morning for years, Kenyon somehow writes her way through her grief. Throughout the book, excerpts from her blog and daily journals are featured:\n\nGrief at Ten and a Half Weeks<\/em>\nThe First Holiday<\/em>\nGrief at Twenty Weeks<\/em>\nGrief at Five Months<\/em>\n\nEach entry is a word picture, a snapshot of grief frozen in time. Between those entries, the reader sees grief melt and morph and reform as Kenyon questions God and hears him answer in sweet and unexpected ways. Though devastated by her losses, she begins to see God at work in her life. Her heart is still broken at the end of the book, but thanks to her determination to cling to God, she is also stronger and more capable than before.\n\nThe rest of this review and instructions on how to enter the drawing for a free copy of Refined by Fire can be found at Down the Gravel Road.<\/a> This drawing is now closed.<\/strong>\n\nDo you like what you see at DifferentDream.com? You can receive more great content by subscribing to the quarterly Different Dream newsletter and signing up for the daily RSS feed delivered to your email inbox. You can sign up for the first in the pop up box and the second at the bottom of this page.<\/em>","_et_gb_content_width":"2880","footnotes":""},"categories":[3587,3559,3561],"tags":[2630,2628,509,533,2629],"class_list":["post-10431","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-books-and-resources","category-different-dream","category-special-needs-parenting","tag-familius","tag-give-away","tag-grace","tag-grief","tag-mary-kenyon-potter"],"yoast_head":"\n