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For almost 32 years, my life has been divided into before and after<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Before<\/em> our first child was born,
And after<\/em> he came into our lives.<\/p>\n

Before<\/em> the doctor came in to say something was wrong,
And after<\/em> we agreed to send our son to a bigger hospital by ambulance.<\/p>\n

Before<\/em> another doctor called with a diagnosis,
And after<\/em> our newborn was life flighted 750 miles away for surgery.<\/p>\n

Before<\/em> I experienced the fierceness and pain of parental love,
<\/em>And after<\/em> I got used to carrying my heart outside my body.<\/em><\/p>\n

Before<\/em> our baby’s soft skin was marred by scars,
And after<\/em> his small body was crisscrossed with them.<\/p>\n

Before<\/em> I could comprehend the agony of the Father on Good Friday,
And after<\/em> I held my baby and bowed in wonder at the gift of God’s Son on the cross.<\/p>\n

Before<\/em> I knew birthdays could be both happy and sad,
And after<\/em> I knew my son’s would ever be so.<\/p>\n

Tomorrow is the 32nd anniversary of the division of my life into before and after<\/em>. That’s right. My sweet baby turns 32 tomorrow. His birthday card’s been sent. His present has been bought. My husband and I will call and sing a corny rendition of the birthday song. Tomorrow will be a day of great celebration for our family.<\/p>\n

For me, it will also be a hard day of reliving the before and after\u00a0<\/em>baggage of parenting a child with special needs. To be honest, there are days when I would like to abandon that baggage. I’d like to quit writing about the challenges we experienced. I’d like to quit dredging up memories that make tears roll down my cheeks.<\/p>\n

To read the rest of this post, please click this link and visit Not Alone’s website for parents of kids with special needs.<\/strong><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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