My Favorite Vacation Planning Tips for Special Needs Families

My Favorite Vacation Planning Tips for Special Needs Families

My Favorite Vacation Planning Tips for Special Needs Families

My favorite vacation planning tips for special needs families were put to good use this past January and February. Our original idea was a 3-generation trip to Disney World over spring break. Due to some health issues we weren’t sure would be resolved beforehand and because we wanted maximum enjoyment and may good memories for the grandkids, one of whom lives with autism, anxiety, and ADHD, we decided to vacay closer to home. These 10 planning tips helped us make spring break the happiest place on earth for everyone in our family.

Tip #1

Less is more. Choosing a destination that was a drivable distance meant less money spent on travel and more to spend on fun attractions, as well as more time enjoying them. Less travel time also meant less cranky kids when we arrived at our destination.

Tip #2

Research, research, research. This allowed us to find lodging that best met our family members’ needs and our budget. It also helped us compile a list of kid- and disability-friendly attractions in different possible destinations so we could make the best choice for our family. You can do the same for your family so everyone can participate fully.

Tip #3

Book a rental home instead of a hotel. Rental homes tend to provide family gathering spaces and quiet areas where kids with sensory issues can recharge and avoid meltdowns. Food can be refrigerated and/or prepared for those with special dietary needs. Laundry facilities are often available—a godsend for kids with special toileting needs. Rental homes are often cheaper than hotels, too. A favorite feature in our rental was a clean and airy basement where the kids could go to roughhouse and be as noisy as their hearts desired.

To find the rest of my favorite vacation planning tips for special needs families, visit the Key Ministry Website.

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Jolene Philo is the author of several books for the caregiving community. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. Sharing Love Abundantly with Special Needs Families: The 5 Love LanguagesĀ® for Parents Raising Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, and Amazon. See Jane Dance!, the third book in the West River cozy mystery series, which features characters affected by disability, was released in October of 2023.

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What Will Go Wrong Next?

What Will Go Wrong Next?

What Will Go Wrong Next?

What will go wrong next?

When our family gathers around the dinner table each evening this summer, that question pops up at some point in every conversation. Here’s why we keep asking it:

  • In June I went to the doctor with throbbing varicose veins. Tests showed that surgery to close the veins a dozen or more years ago have opened again. This happens only 10% of the time.
  • Our pickup truck started acting up in early July, a week before we were go on a long anticipated family vacation. In short order, the vacation morphed into a staycation.
  • In the middle of the staycation, my husband took our son-in-law to the ER with heart attack-like symptoms. It wasn’t a heart attack, but he was in the hospital for 3 days before a diagnosis was made.
  • My husband’s rib went out of place a week later. He says he’s never been in such pain.
  • Our air conditioning system, installed last fall, has never operated correctly. We’re on a first name basis with the repair technician. He’s here again today. He’ll probably be here tomorrow.
  • My husband and I have a late August trip planned in the camper we purchased in May. The license plates still haven’t come.
  • Last night, my husband took our son-in-law to the ER with chest pains again. Not as severe as before. The cause was quickly diagnosed.

This list shows why the summer of 2022 has risen to second place in my personal hit parade of bad summers. But no matter how bad this summer gets, it won’t overtake 1982.

To read the rest of What Will Go Wrong Next? visit the special needs parenting blog at the Key Ministry website.

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Jolene Philo is the author of theĀ Different DreamĀ series for parents of kids with special needs. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. She’s also the creator and host of theĀ Different Dream website.Ā Sharing Love Abundantly with Special Needs Families: The 5 Love LanguagesĀ® for Parents RaisingĀ Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, andĀ at Amazon. The first book in her cozy mystery series, See Jane Run!, features people with disabilities.

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6 Special Needs Tent Camping Tips

6 Special Needs Tent Camping Tips

6 Special Needs Tent Camping Tips

Special needs tent camping may sound impossible, but guest blogger Trish Shaeffer encourages families to give it a try. Today, she shares her 6 best special needs tent camping tips with Different Dream readers.

Summer is here, and I often get asked if having special needs kids keeps us from going on vacation. My answer?

Absolutely not!

We still do family vacations regardless of our twins with special needs. Even camping! And I’m not talking RV camping. I’m talking tent camping, which is a great way to save money and have a fun and memorable family vacation. In fact, a camping trip was our first-ever family vacation, and it was a dry run for an actual big vacation. So how did we do it?

Special Needs Tent Camping Tip 1: Make a Trial Run

We stayed at the camp site for a weekend to try it out: it went well and the kids loved it. The only thing we overdid was packing too much stuff. But now I know exactly what to bring next time.

Special Needs Tent Camping Tip 2: Consider Your Child’s Needs

We keep our sons’ needs in mind when planning a vacation and choosing a camping spot. For example, for places with larger crowds we bring along noise-cancelling headphones or take a break during the day away from noise and people. We also keep in mind how long we are out and about on vacation.

Special Needs Tent Camping Tip 3: Bring Necessary Equipment

When we go camping, we need a tent site with electricity for Alex’s nebulizer and other medical equipment. He also sleeps on a cozy air mattress because of his cerebral palsy.

Special Needs Tent Camping Tip 4: Find the Perfect Campground

For great family-friendly camping spots, check online through the your state’s Department of Conservation and Natural Resources website. It should have information on accessibility. At the Pennsylvania website, we located a camping spot that was handicap-friendly, and it didn’t cost any extra. We were even fairly close to the lake front.

Special Needs Tent Camping Tip 5: Look for Accessible Activities

Having a kid in a wheelchair makes going on vacation a real planning deal because we have to make sure travel destinations are handicap accessible. Luckily, many places do offer handicap accessible actives. Even beaches have handicap ramps down to the ocean.

One of the things you have to remember when planning a family vacation is simply to ask if you are not sure. Most people are understanding and friendly and will help you with accommodations. Some restaurants even offer a menu for people with food allergies.

Special Needs Tent Camping Tip 6: Be Creative

There are many other details to keep in mind–from keeping your kids in their tents and not going astray, to how to take your special needs child fishing in a wheelchair. All you need to do is be creative with your planning and brave enough to try a family adventure somewhere you have always wanted to go. Be adventurous and have fun!

Your Special Needs Tent Camping Tips?

Have you gone camping with kids who have special needs? What tips did you discover along the way? Leave them in the comment box if you like!

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Special Needs Vacation Tips and Tricks

Special Needs Vacation Tips and Tricks

Special Needs Vacation Tips and Tricks

School’s out, summer’s here, and it’s time to make vacation plans. Guest blogger Trish Shaeffer is here with field tested tips and tricks for a special needs vacation everyone in the family will enjoy.

Special Needs Vacation Tips and Tricks

Everyday life with a special needs child is full of running around like a chicken with its head cut off, but summer vacation time can bring a whole new meaning to ā€œmulti-tasking.ā€ To make vacation time planning a little easier, here are some special needs vacation tips and tricks I have used over the years. Feel free to use one, use them all or even add some of your own in the comment box below.

We usually travel by car which brings its own sense of adventure. It’s good to note that during any car ride for longer than an hour or two, it’s good to pull over, take a break and have everyone stretch their legs. We have had some adventures at truck stops, gas stations, and rest stops along the way to our destination. But the most important tip is to always have fun. With that said, here we go!

Special Needs Vacation Beach Tips

Tired of carrying a heavy umbrella to the beach? You can buy clip-on umbrellas that work great for strollers and, yes, even wheelchairs. I found our umbrella at a beach store. No more heavy umbrella to carry to the beach and it’s adjustable.

Tired of getting sand all over your towel or blanket? Just bring along a fitted crib or bed sheet. Use coolers to hold up the corners for no more buried beach blanket. To remove sand from feet and hands, use baby powder and brush sand away.

Beach not handicapped accessible? Use a wagon or boogie board to pull your child to the water or around the beach. This will work depending on the size and balance of your child. Alex loves going for a ride to the water.

A few other beach tips.

  • Freeze water bottles or juice bottles before going to beach. By the time you get there, your drinks are just thawing out and cold to drink.
  • To keep medications cool, place them in a Ziploc or water tight bag, and tape it to the inside lid of an ice cooler. This works for epi pens too. Make sure to follow instructions for temperature storage for medication.
Special Needs Vacation Camping Tips

Need a child-size air mattress for half the cost? Use inflatable pool mats for the kids to sleep on while camping.

Have a wanderer on your hands? Have them wear bright colors so you can easily locate them. You can also hang small bells on tent zippers so you will know when the tent is being opened. Install a buddy system; have siblings pair up to keep each other safe. For extra safety, put a GPS tracker on your child. Many sync right to your cell phone and are small enough to fit on wrists or even shoes.

Too hot outside? Place wet wash cloths in Ziploc bags and place on ice in a cooler until needed. Place the cloths on the back of your child’s neck to cool them down on a hot day.

Want to avoid bathroom disasters? Make sure to get a beach or camping spot close to the bathrooms. Or bring a travel potty seat to make it easier for your child. We found one for our son that adapts nicely and has handles for him to balance.

A few other camping tips.

  • Get a campsite with electrical outlets for any equipment you bring along such as a nebulizer or feeding pump.
  • Always have a first aid kit when traveling and extra blankets. Also bring any chargers or car chargers you need.
  • Nap mats and yoga mats work great if you are out at the campsite and you child needs some tummy time.
  • Bring a spray bottle with water and mint mixture. Spray on your child to keep them cool and to keep the bugs away.
  • Test tick guards on small site to check a reaction. Always check with your child’s healthcare provider before using natural remedies and essential oils. Also ask what percentage of DEET should be in your child’s bug spray.
  • Bring noise-cancelling head phones for loud attractions or hand dryers in the bathroom. If you child is like mine, the headphones are a must against the wicked hand dryer.

Last but least, just in case you forgot….have fun with your family on your special needs vacation adventures!

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10 Summer Reading Tips for Kids with Special Needs

10 Summer Reading Tips for Kids with Special Needs

10 Summer Reading Tips for Kids with Special Needs

The middle of July. The time when the novelty of summer has worn off and getting the kids to read gets harder and harder. These 10 summer reading tips make it easier to keep kids with special needs reading all summer long.

10 Summer Reading Tips for Kids with Special Needs

Tip #1: Be Consistent

Most kids with special needs love structure. They crave routine. So try to read in the same time and place every day.

Tip #2: Read Short Segments

Break the story down into small segments. Discuss each segment once it’s been read. Ask questions like these: Who are the characters in this story? Where does this story take place? What do you think might happen next?

Tip #3: Count the Pages or Paragraphs

To motivate kids to move on to short chapter books, count and record the number of pages read on an index card at the end of reading time. Or consider each paragraph as an achievement and count those.

Tip #4: Relate the Story to Real Life

Story details are easier for kids to understand if they relate to their lives. So select books with characters, stories, or places similar to your child’s experiences. When reading together, ask questions like these: Does this remind you of something? Have you ever felt that way? Have you ever gone to a place like that? What did you do when you were there?

Tip #5: Use All Five Senses

Children with special needs often learn by by using multiple senses. So listen to an audio version while following along on the written page. This gives them the ability to “see” the text and to “hear” it at the same time. If a book is on DVD, act out the story along with the characters on the screen.

Tip #6: Use Art to Reinforce the Story

Make construction paper cutouts of scenes from the book, color pictures that depict events in the plot, or make figures out of clay or play-dough to reinforce what’s been read.

Tip #7: Use Repetition.

Reading the same story nightly or reread certain segments to clarify what happened. Repeat the story together at bedtime to establish the story in a child’s mind and improve comprehension.

Tip #8: Stop Reading

If a book doesn’t capture your attention or your child’s, stop reading it. Otherwise the desire to read may dwindle completely.

Tip #9: Read Paper Books

Paper books are less distracting then a Kindle, Nook, or iPad. So stick with paper books whenever possible.

Tip #10: Read with Your Kids

Offer to buy members of your family a book a month. Make the selections together and then read one another’s books (or read them aloud together) and discuss them.

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Jolene Philo is the author of theĀ Different DreamĀ series for parents of kids with special needs. She speaks at parenting and special needs conferences around the country. She’s also the creator and host of theĀ Different Dream website.Ā Sharing Love Abundantly With Special Needs Families: The 5 Love LanguagesĀ® for Parents RaisingĀ Children with Disabilities, which she co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, was released in August of 2019 and is available at local bookstores, their bookstore website, andĀ at Amazon.

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